This is a beautiful exploration of trust. I fully agree that the ultimate form of trust is self-trust. If we can trust ourselves to have our own backs, then we know we will not allow anyone else to mess us about, and we can trust that we will get ourselves out of a situation or relationship that is not good for us. That feels to me like the real power and real security we can have in the complex world of relationships
I'd just like to thank you here for offering this healing to people who need it. I might not be the only one who has done the job (self-love, setting boundaries, IFS... and binging Brene Brown talks) and is still hoping that some people (and a special person) around me will also heal and finally experience safety, trust, growing with others.
This is a beautiful exploration of trust. I fully agree that the ultimate form of trust is self-trust. If we can trust ourselves to have our own backs, then we know we will not allow anyone else to mess us about, and we can trust that we will get ourselves out of a situation or relationship that is not good for us. That feels to me like the real power and real security we can have in the complex world of relationships
I'd just like to thank you here for offering this healing to people who need it. I might not be the only one who has done the job (self-love, setting boundaries, IFS... and binging Brene Brown talks) and is still hoping that some people (and a special person) around me will also heal and finally experience safety, trust, growing with others.