Woundmates & Soulmates & Fusion, Oh My!

Excerpt From The Boundaries Handbook

Because of our boundary confusion, we often wind up on a quest for a “soulmate” who becomes a “woundmate.” Because our parents often confuse us in the name of love, we tend to seek out those who first coddle and comfort, and later trigger and retraumatize our deepest wounds. As couple’s therapist Harville Hendricks, PhD, author of Getting The Love You W…